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One of the
problems with reporting personality characteristics is that we
have to use words that have commonly-used, multiple meanings
to talk about very specific and narrowly defined personality
concepts. For
example, there are two scales on the Performance Profile –
Sociability and Friendliness – that our users often confuse,
which can lead to confusion in the meaning of the Personality
Profile results.
Let’s take a closer look at what they measure, and what
combinations you are likely to see.
First, Basic
Definitions
The
characteristic of Sociability on the Performance Profile
measures a person’s degree of comfort at dealing with people –
being around them, interacting with people. People who are
energized by contact with other people are sometimes
called “extroverts,” and they have relatively high Sociability
ratings on the Performance Profile. People who are
energized by being by themselves, at some distance from
other people, are sometimes called “introverts” and they have
low Sociability ratings. Social skills –
that is, the ability to make small talk, to look at people
directly, to introduce oneself to a stranger or a group of
people – may be possessed by both extroverts and introverts,
but extroverts are more comfortable doing these things.
The
characteristic of Friendliness, on the other hand, is a
measure of how important it is to an individual to be pleasant
to others, even when he or she doesn’t feel like doing
so. Friendliness
measures the extent to which it is important to a person to
“put himself in the other person’s place” in terms of taking
the other person’s feelings and reactions into account.
Looking At Behavior From Two
Points Of View
Each of us is
far more aware of our personal intentions in a given
situation, and we usually try to behave in ways that we feel
are consistent with our internal assumptions and
feelings. Since
we can’t see others’ intentions as clearly as we see our own,
we have to reason backwards from their behavior, which we see,
to what we assume that implies about their intentions. We sometimes forget,
however, that the lens through which we are looking backwards
is shaped by our own personal preferences, which may not be
the same as the person’s whose behavior we are trying to
understand. That
is a large part of the reason that we misunderstand one
another from time to time, and why people whose
Sociability/Friendliness preferences are different are
particularly prone to mutual misunderstandings. That said, let’s look
at some typical combinations.
High Sociability, Low Friendliness
These folks make up about 20% of managers. They are outgoing and
like to be around people, but in continuing relationships they
may come across as insincere or superficial. They can be seen as
two-faced or manipulative because, while they easily establish
rapport and quickly seem to “get to know” people, they have a
very low need to put other people’s needs before their
own. They are not
particularly interested in establishing long-term
relationships with most people they meet.
Employment Options: These folks make great
salespeople. They
are good at establishing rapport with prospects and clients
and, at the same time, they won’t spend a lot of time smoozing
if a sale is not forthcoming.
Low Sociability, High Friendliness
Constituting about 10% of managers, these are the
people of whom we say, “It takes a little longer to get to
know Fred, but once you do you will see that he is a really
nice guy.” The
“Freds” of the world don’t always make a good first impression
due to their lack of social confidence, but over time their
genuine concern for others dominates the impression they
make.
Employment Options: These folks make great
individual contributors and are well suited for any position
that does not require strong, continuous people
contact.
Low Sociability, Low Friendliness
The
good news is that these folks make up only about 11% of
managers. These
are the curmudgeons of the work world. They lack social
graces and don’t particularly care who knows it. Their success stems
from their carving out an area of work and becoming the go-to
guy for that area.
Employment Options: These folks are much
more effective as individual contributors than as managers as
long as they have pronounced strength in an area that is
necessary to the business (for example, as a computer
guru)
High Sociability, High Friendliness
This balance is the one we all like most: nice people who are
good at getting along with others because they enjoy it. Further good news is
that folks with this balance make up about 60% of the
workforce.
Employment Options: There are many; the
abilities to get along with a wide variety of people and also
to be a genuinely nice person are major strengths that, absent
any other major personality liabilities, will help make these
people successful in most circumstances.
What Are The Personality Requirements Of The
Job?
Of
course people in that last category – high Sociability and
high Friendliness – make a good impression in an
interview! People
in the first category often make great interview impressions
as well. But
remember to stop and think about what kind of person will be
required by the job in question. It’s just as
unsuccessful to put a person who wants to spend a lot
of time around people in a job with almost no people contact
as to put an introvert in a job that requires extended contact
with people.
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